3 Things to Do When You’re Single and Not Dating

3 Things to Do When You’re Single and Not Dating

 ‘Being single is great’. Although not everyone would subscribe to this assertion but let me buttress this assertion by adding that ‘being single and not dating’ allow you ample time to work on yourself, explore your options and it’s a necessary component to life. How would you know how to function on your own in life when you’re constantly in a relationship? Being single is basically the time to catch your breath and realize who you are as a person and as a member of the society.

Being single also means ultimate freedom. This isn’t to suggest that being in a relationship is a trap, but it does mean you have to check in with your partner on certain things, share responsibilities, financially and otherwise, and you’re as committed to the relationship as well as committed to your partner. Being committed to someone you adore or love is wonderful but being single is just as wonderful in different ways. If you’re currently single and not dating, don’t beat you down or get down on yourself! Use this time that you aren’t seeing anyone as a special youtime. There are things to do when you’re single and not dating.

  1. Be passionate about something. Being single gives you a whole lot of time to pursue other endeavors, especially one for which you’re passionate about. You can decide to start writing that novel, drama, poems or even the short stories you’ve been talking about for a long time, you can even go into arts, take classes in painting, learn the art of photography, editing pictures and videos; you would have all the time to do what your passions drives you at.
  2. Socialize. Sometimes when we are in a relationship, we get stuck in ruts with our partner. You order from the same pizza place, hang out together in a familiar bar, socialize and connect with the same people. In being single, you get to break those old habits and try new things, go to new places, hang out in an entirely different bar and definitely socialize and connect with different people of different mentality, you get to view and see life in an entirely different way.
  3. Enjoy the ‘single and not dating’ syndrome. ‘Nothing would last forever’ also applies to the act of being single. So, instead of worrying about when next you’ll find yourself on a date with someone who is potentially “The One”, enjoy every second of being single. You can get yourself a Japanese sex doll to satisfy your sexual urge and even get new sex positions, enjoy the hell out of being single. Because, when you’re in a relationship again, there will definitely be limits and you’ll very well miss being single.

Being single and not dating isn’t a crime. Don’t see it as wrong,but see the self-reflective part of not dating and see the advantages of being single and not in any way committed to a cause. Try the above listed things to do, help yourself now so eventually when you get into a relationship, you wouldn’t miss the days when you were single. So, you wouldn’t wish you had fun when you could. Have fun now.

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